I'm Getting Older In My Smart Age...

I think the best thing about being sick is feeling better. In the future I am going to try to remember to bask in that glorious moment as long as possible. Here's why. As soon as I started feeling better it was hard not to do a little light housework. Vern had been busting his behind trying to run this house,work AND unpack from our camping trip. Oh bless his heart..:) He did a great job! BUT..one man cannot keep up after Del and this house,it requires at least a 2 person team. So I did a few dishes,cleaned counters,folded laundry and it felt great to be able to be up and around. I had been in bed wayy to long! As time went by I finally started coming out of my Vicoden induced haze and it felt good to hold a conversation and come back to reality.The pain and pills had me out of my mind for 4 days.
 By that evening my eyes and brain were returning to full focus. It felt good just to sit at the table and eat a meal on our new deck with Vern. I had missed him so much even though he was right there the whole time taking care of me. This was the highlight of feeling better! In the future,this is the moment I am going to try to have to remember to savor a little bit longer.
Soon after the downside started to hit me...coming back to face all the things that have been stacked up while you were out can be enough to make you want to go back to bed!
2 dirty dogs that haven't been bathed or brushed for weeks,
A bathroom I was so sick in that I'd rather just torch and rebuild to erase the horrid memories (jk!),
piles of coupons that need cutting and organizing,
tons of clients rescheduled.....
 And a house that has suffered,
3 days of Del living there alone and cooking for himself,
a deck remodel,
2 dirty beach dogs,
and no woman's touch for almost 2 weeks.
THESE are the times when I tell myself...."Take it easy,don't do too much too soon." "Don't worry about the little things,sometimes a spotless house is overrated."  and for me that seems to help alot but I won't lie...it bugs me. As I continue in my Faith I have yet to master my skills as His servant. Serving Him,others and myself (in that order) isn't always as easy as it sounds :)

Attack Of The Gallbladder

I'm alive and feeling so thankful to be getting healthy! Guess who has an angry gallbladder? Lucky Me. It's a long,long story and it's not over yet but I at least wanted you all to know I am on the mend. I have faced the sudden reality that I can no longer eat fatty foods,red meat,cheese,coffee etc etc as much as I used to... if at all. I lost almost 15 pounds in 10 days and I assume that will continue but at a more reasonable and healthy rate. I see my new Dr. in a few days and I am hoping I have more success with her than I did with the Urgent Care Dr.. I will write more later and tell you more but for now I just wanted to check in :)

Frustrated

 I think has been almost a week since I have written anything..? It's hard to know where to start...

 We had a good time in Sekiu despite a few hang ups. The rain was off and on but well worth it for the huge agates we found. We made a funny memory..Vern and I running down Vista beach after we realized it was NOT going to stop monsooning anytime soon. We had on plenty of warm clothes and rain coats but it was pouring! My pants got so wet and heavy that I had to hold them up while "running"  to the truck while also barefoot and with pockets full of rocks! By the time we got to the truck we were soaked through 2 layers! Looks like my raincoat isn't so waterproof after all?! Thank you Chevrolet and Vern for providing me with a truck with seat warmers!

 Trevor was still fighting Bronchitis so he was not quite his perky self during our trip. As for me I got the stomach flu on Friday and have been throwing up everything I have eaten since. Today was day 7 . Vern has also come down with a tummy bug but his symptoms are different. We have barely worked this week and when we were at work,we probably shouldn't have been. Sooo for the first time in a LONG time,I am going to the Doctor tomorrow. In fact, I don't think I have ever been to urgent care for myself..? After many phone calls and unhelpful referrals I finally started to learn how to play the medical insurance game. They make it really inconvenient for sick people to find a Doctor,holy cow..I had no idea it was so complicated and corrupt! In the process of all my efforts I also made a follow up appointment with my new Doctor so I can begin to establish some type of medical records. (New Dr. won't see me for 1st time visit to address tummy issue,was told to go to urgent care,covered by insurance,then I can go to new Dr for follow up. Don't you just love insurance?!) I just hope they can figure it out. I don't know how many more days I can live on soup broth and water....

 Since we have been home I have also spent time on the phone with my 401k company. That was eye opener! I have never had anyone tell me that they are taking (a percentage of) my money and I can't have it back until I retire or quit my job!? STUPID! "Someday" when I have enough in my account they will "allow" me to take a loan on it and pay myself back...WHHHHAT?! I am so stupid for not learning more about it before I started investing...on the bright side my nest egg is safe. I will be so thankful when I am older but mannn,that was a reality slap in the face!

 While in the process of all of this 401k and medical insurance mess I also realized my driver's license is expired! SINCE JANUARY! "No worries" I thought "I will pay my late fee and renew on line." Half way through THAT process I was told I could not renew online because my license was more that 60 days expired. I have to go to the DMV. Seriously?! Why do all these companies take my money yet be so difficult when it comes to helping me in return?! Can't something just go right for a minute? Oh wait it just did..Clearblue Easy just confirmed that I'm not pregnant. Thank you God! I highly doubted I was but it's nice to have the peace of mind.

 I hope my next blog is full of happier news. This week has been a rough one. Things will get better,they have to :)

Another Weekend In Paradise

3 Days Away

We are headed off to the coast again. A relaxing 3 day weekend of camping in the rainforest and plenty of beach combing to celebrate Vern's birthday. This time it will be Vern and I and our 3 kids. Our first family vacation with the 5 of us and I am so excited! Chipper and Maxine just adore their big brother Trevor and I am also hoping Vern and Trevor have some much needed guy time. As for me,I just need to get outta here..see some new scenery. I need a few days of naps in the afternoon and hot showers in the rain. My feet and toes need the softening touch that only miles of barefoot beach combing can provide. I have promised myself I will bring out my Nikon and quit taking all my photos with my cell phone for a few days. Usually Spring gets me in the photography mood after a long drab winter but this year my mood has been as delayed as the warm weather.
 I will pack a huge duffle bag of sweatshirts and comfy pants,all my favorite things to wear,long socks and rain coat and boots. Matching or not,I really don't care. I might bring my blow dryer...for the dogs lol! But seriously,they get really wet and cold on the beach...;) Worse than that..I am hoping Maxine has enough outfits with matching hair accessories for 3 days. She has grown out of most of her baby clothes and her hair is so long I have to put it up every day so she can see. Besides,she just looks so cute :) A bag for me,a bag for the dogs,extra clothes for Trevor and extra sweatshirts for Vern (because they never pack enough)..and they wonder why women pack so much...ha ha

So if I don't find time to blog before we go,I hope you all have a happy and safe Memorial Day weekend! :)

1st Test C+

I survived my grocery shopping adventure at Winco on Friday. I spent THREE HOURS there. I got all the deals I was hoping for and I few I didn't expect. I spent $213.00 on a grocery cart FULL of groceries. I had 5 store coupons and 20 manufacturer coupons and I saved a total of $24. Now,6 months ago if I had saved that much with coupons I would've felt like the Queen of the Coupon World. BUT,thanks to my new knowledge of this "new" trend and the extremes people go to.... I feel defeated. My savings wasn't 40%. I know I shouldn't feel disappointed,we needed a lot of groceries I had no coupon for and Winco's prices are MUCH lower that most stores...but still,I have worked so hard and I was hoping for bigger results. All in good time I suppose. A first lesson in couponing learned-even if you stick to the rules,groceries cost money. LOL! Until I can stock my pantry with enough goods to last me a few months I will have to buy some things as I need them and I won't always have a coupon. When my stockpiled pantry is complete I will be able to wait and buy things at their lowest price...or maybe even free!

This week I got 5 Sunday papers and it has taken me 2 evenings to cut and organize them all in my coupon binder. I continue to learn as much as I can and I keep my faith I will be able to turn this new "part time job" into a way of giving to others as well. Today I mailed coupons to Idaho! My friends there don't get many of the great manufacturer coupons I get here and I am happy to share any I don't use. Any of you reading this that would like coupons let me know. I have a ton for dog and cat food,asst OTC medications,snacks etc.

:)

Couponing 101: The Test

 I am pretty sure I have the cutest coupon helper in the world..



Tomorrow is the big day.

The day I venture out on my first large couponing adventure.

I have a pink Trapper Keeper full of coupons.
Almost every coupon I could get my hands on for the last 4 weeks.

The coupons are organized and categorized.
The lists are all printed,3 hole punched and filed in front.

So neatly in fact,
that I am still in amazement that I created it. 

I am headed to Winco.
Mostly because I have yet to check their everyday prices on the things I buy most.
So we will call it research.
I am pretty sure that Winco prices plus coupons will make for a fun trip.
Now that's what I call shopping!

My rules:
*Stick to the list
*Sales and coupons only. Patience pays off with sale prices elsewhere or at a later date!
* $20 allowance for "Pennies On The Dollar" purchases. (buying things not on the list because they are super cheap with a coupon AND in an attempt to create stockpile of my dreams he he)
*Check expiration dates.
*Keep a tally and stick to the budget.
*Check and double check coupons
*Make sure everything is scanned properly

Wish me luck!