Happily Ever After

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Thirty Four

"Dear Cara,
Happy Birthday sweetheart! I remember well the day you were born.We had expected you on Christmas. My due date was December 25th or 26th. I guess you didn't want to share you birthday with Jesus! On January 12th my Mom dropped me off at Dr. Edward's office to see if I was ready.One induction shot and minutes later my water broke. He gave me a diaper to wear and walked me across the street to the hospital. A few hours later you were here! You are a blessing.
We wish we could be there for your birthday. We hope to come over soon.
Hugs & Kisses,
Dad & Mom"
-written inside my birthday card from my parents this year. What a beautiful gift it is to have her share that memory with me,love you Mom & Dad!

Monday, January 9, 2012

Over The Hill

Happy 50th Birthday Del!

Do These Glasses Make Me Look Smarter?

A Day At The Beach In December

New

new-
1. of recent origin, production, purchase, etc.; having but lately come or been brought into being: a new book.

2. of a kind now existing or appearing for the first time; novel: a new concept of the universe.

It's a new year and I am surprised once again at the appeal of using this opportunity to start new habits and make goals. I have never cared much for making a New Year's resolution,when I have,I gave up mid January. Instead I have tried to focus more on finding ways to make the most of the next 365 days while avoiding the pressure of keeping a resolution. Yes of course I want to be healthier, thinner, nicer, a harder worker ,better at trusting God,the best overall person I can be bla bla bla...

But all of that aside.

Deep down I am overwhelmed with the stereotypical desire to start new?

No, I don't mean fleeing the state and changing my name or quitting my job or anything that drastic.

I mean new like letting the past go,turning the page and proudly accepting that who I was and who I am are very different people. Time to live in the now. The present,the future. No more baggage from my ex marriage,dysfunctional lifestyles and toxic friends. No more old house full of cobwebs and mismatched paint that doesn't feel like a home...
our home.
This epiphany hit me othe other day as I was washing dishes. It's a hodge podge of Corelle that I got as a wedding gift in 1999 when a married a man who made my life a living hell for the ten years to follow. The others were a mixed set of chipped and stained hand me downs from Vern's family. I suddenly began to question the need to tolerate,wash,use these dishes that are either ruined or remind me of a bad memory. Especially ridiculous because I had a beautiful set of Fiesta ware sitting on my corner shelf doing nothing but making it look pretty and collecting dust." Do I really want to live the kind of life where I take the chance of dying with my fancy dishes still on a shelf?! NO!" So I gathered them up,gave them a long soapy soak and let them dry as I hauled those last bits of Corelle out to the recycle bin. An hour later,my cupboard was an organized masterpiece of storage containers and colorful dishes. My inner OCD basked in the sight of it,I was proud.

So we begin tomorrow,getting rid of everything that doesn't have any positive memory. Giving it away,throwing it away...oh yes,the sweet release of bad juju!
First project is to make over the living room. It needs everything from paint and molding to rugs and a couch. After that I will inflict my collection of home deco ideas from Pinterest all over the place. During this process it will require me to also tackle the garage. Time to come face to face with my piles of storage and say good bye to most of it once and for all. I need room to store more important things! Like...a craft bench area,stockpile items,garden supplies..perhaps a small greenhouse? Ok that last one will never happen but hey..a girl could dream! The really fun part will be being able to finally use and display some of the beautiful funky junk and deco we have been collecting. Old windows, giant mirrors, shelves ,antiques, beach treasures and generations of family heirlooms.
Oh irony,the ecitement of making new with a bunch of old stuff.
Our new.

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Resolutions

Stumped trying to think of a New Year's Resolution this year?

May I offer some helpful suggestions?

Start buying lottery tickets at a luckier store.

Remember to brush teeth with bristly end of toothbrush.

Don't eat medicine just because it looks like candy.

Learn what the hell "resolution" means.

Always replace the gas nozzle before driving away from the pump.

I will try to drive closer to the speed limit.

I will keep an extra safe distance when driving behind police cars.

I will no longer waste my time relieving the past and instead I will spend it worrying about the future.

I will not bore my boss with the same excuse for taking leaves. I will think of some more excuses.

I will do less laundry and use more deodorant.

I will try to figure out why I really need nine e-mail addresses.

I resolve to work with neglected children -- my own.

I will spend less than one hour a day on the Internet. This, of course, will be hard to estimate since I'm not a clock watcher.

I will read the manual... just as soon as I can find it.

I will think of a password other than "password."

I will not tell the same story at every get together.

Read fewer books. A little learning is a dangerous thing. Too much of it can really wreck your head.

Watch more TV. It's very educational. Catch up on all those programs you missed down the years.

Just for today, I will not sit in my living room all day in my nightdress. Instead, I will move my computer into the bedroom.

Sunday, January 1, 2012

2011 Memory Lane

Gosh..the thought of trying to sum up 2011 and welcome 2012 in a blog post seems intimidatingly difficult and too much pressure. As I think back about all the things that happened last year, my heart literally swells with gratitude..it wasn't perfect but as a whole is was pretty darn good!

We became parents of the cutest and sweetest little girl! Maxine is only 6 pounds but she has filled our home with so much love! Personally I have always known I needed a little girl and she is that and more!